You realize the moment that you needed to get back in the habit of doing what you use to do without a man. It was when you realize you did not do anything you were going to do the whole week. The, “I will do this tomorrow” but as soon as the person invades your space because you were thinking about them it does not get done. Head over heels, is what they call it? Your life was so about that person you lost track of yourself. Why is it when a man or a woman is with there significant other we lose all train of thought? We were so indulged in that person that we confided in them.
The day that person breaks if off, that is when our eyes open, ears are listening, and our noses are up. We have to adjust back to life without that person. For some of us, it make take a week, a month, or a year depending on how long you’ve known or have been together. Open your eyes, and know that you can still do what you need to do in YOUR life while still seeing the person you have feelings for, love, or even like. Don’t put all your energy into that one person. Your heart may be broken at the end.